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EMC第12屆會長郭沁頤（師大公領系學生）的邀請，為即將上任的台北和桃園領航團隊們上了一堂「目標管理與訂定」課程，透過目標的制訂、過程的執行，檢討與修正來說明目標應如何去做管理。為了別讓「目標」生硬硬主題講的枯燥，而其對象又是大學生，講理論怕這些小孩沒辦法體會，試著用組織的例子與故事來讓未來的領航員能有所領略，期待這堂課能讓你們有所收穫，並且「達成目標」才是王道。
 

    最近與同事之間發生了一些事情，本身在工作過程中出了些小瑕疵、但認為還不至於到錯誤的程度，而對方工作辛勞疲累，影響了情緒，就在不恰當的時刻上，產生非良好的互動，然而，對於此友好同事的瞭解，選擇採取對彼此雙方較好的回應方式，結果當然很不愉快，而事後的修補需靠雙方的真誠，故相信之後仍夠相安無事，只是需要花些時間。
   

Now, adults seem to have a prevalently restrictive attitude towards kids from every ‘don’t do that,’ don’t do this’ in the school handbook, to restrictions on school internet use. As history points out, regimes become oppressive when they’re fearful about keeping control. And, although adults may not be quite at the level of totalitarian regimes, kids have no, or very little, say in making the rules, when really the attitude should be reciprocal, meaning that the adult population should learn and take into account the wishes of the younger population. Now, what’s even worse than restriction is that adults often underestimate kids’ abilities. We love challenges, but when expectations are low, trust me, we will sink to them.
 

FROM == http://www.ted.com/talks/lang/chi_hant/adora_svitak.html
 
NOW, I want to start with a question. When was the last time you were called childish? For kids like me, being called childish can be a frequent occurrence. Every time we make irrational demands, exhibit irresponsible behavior, or display any other signs of being normal American citizens, we are called childish. After all, take a look at there events
 
Ask yourself: who’s responsible? Adults.
Now, what have kids done?
Well, anne frank touched millions with her powerful account of holocaust.
Ruby bridges helped end segregation in the United States , and, most recently, Charlie Simpson helped to raise 120,000 pounds for Haiti on his little bike.
 
So, as you can see evidenced by such examples, age has absolutely nothing to do with it. The traits has word childish addresses are seen so often in adults that we should abolish this age-discriminatory word when it comes to criticizing behavior associated with irresponsibility and irrational thinking.
 
Then again, who’s to say that certain types of irrational thinking? Aren’t exactly what the world needs? Maybe you’ve had grand plans before, but stopped yourself, thinking: that’s impossible or that costs too much or that won’t benefit me. For better or worse, we kids aren’t hampered as much when it comes to thinking about reasons why not to do things. Kids can full of inspiring aspirations and hopeful thinking, like my wish that no one went hungry or that everything were free kind of utopia. How many of you still dream like that and believe in the possibilities? Sometimes a knowledge of history and the past failures of utopian ideals can be a burden because you know that if everything were free, that the food stocks would become depleted, and scarce and lead to chaos. On the other hand, we kids still dream about perfection and that’s a good thing because in order to make anything a reality, you have to dream about it first. In many ways, our audacity to imagine helps push the boundaries of possibility. For instance, the museum of glass in tacomam, Washington .
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Now, our inherent wisdom doesn’t have to be insider’s knowledge. Kids already do a lot of learning from adults, and we have a lot to share. I think that adults should start learning from kids. Now, I do most my speaking in front of an education crowd, teachers and students, and I like this analogy. It shouldn’t just be a teacher at head of classroom telling students do this, do that. The students should teach their teachers. Learning between grown ups and kids should be reciprocal. The reality, unfortunately, is a little different, and it has a lot to do with trust, or a lack of it. Now, if you don’t trust someone, you place restrictions on them, right. If I doubt my older sister’s ability to pay back the 10 percent interest I established on her last loan, I’m going to withhold her ability to get more money from me until she pays it back.

  「被魚咬腳」這是某位伙伴期待已久的事，在昨晚於7-11購買東西時，詢問工讀生那裡有這項服務，他所推薦的是「山泉大飯店」，果然在飯店前面就有廣告圖案，號稱魚有兩萬隻，是特別由國外引進有名的溫泉魚又稱『魚醫生』，數量是全國最大，但照片上魚的密度有點恐怖。其30分鐘100元，但有伙伴想要休息，所以只有兩位伙伴去「被魚咬腳」。因展詞志工要和弟回學校整理宿舍，故先行送他回家，而一趟回到「被魚咬腳」的地方也差不多一小時，但很奇怪怎麼還沒出來？只好進去找他們，跟櫃臺服務員講一聲，不疑有他就讓我進去了，進去後看到這兩位伙伴褲管捲高高，一堆魚享受著皮屑佳餚，池中的魚事實上沒有如同照片裡密度那麼高。

 

伙伴：「你要不要用手試試看？」

 

心理突然不知怎麼覺得有點噁心感，大家都用腳去泡，這樣的有味道的池叫我用手？個人老實的我沒付錢當然不能偷偷用腳泡，但心理也有點養養的，想試試看被魚咬是什麼樣的感覺？

 

所以鼓起勇氣克服心理障礙，伸手下去這個感覺有味道的泡腳池，不知道眾多的腳會不會排擠這一個外來的手？魚立刻慢慢的游過來，起初幾隻，慢慢的越來越多靠近，被小魚咬有種小電電的感覺，但是大一點的魚來咬你，或許嘴巴比較大力道比較強，有點酥麻痛感，基本上還滿好玩的。

 

或許是非假日，雖然限時30分鐘，但好像沒什麼人來趕你或提醒你，愛泡多久讓你泡到爽，不過泡太久皮膚會皺皺的，所以應該也還好。我只有左手下去被魚咬，所以可以來個比較對照組，果真被魚咬一咬後，皮膚真的變比較光滑。在網路上有此地的照片可觀看且很詳盡，在此與大家分享。http://blog.xuite.net/cock0908/travel/24415529

 

  橘子咖啡館是座落在宜蘭枕頭山半腰上，可以遠眺蘭陽平原，視野好時更可看到龜山島。距離上次來約已兩年多，清靜、幽雅的環境是個很棒的夜景餐廳，晚上就在此聊天，劃下此次宜蘭旅遊的圓滿句點。

 

 宜蘭之遊充滿輕鬆與知性，大家都玩的盡興，尤其是節省但大方的本人，拿出在尾牙的部份獎金補助大家，包吃包住包車包玩每個人才花1200元，期待下次風水輪流轉。可惜的是其他部門的伙伴因故無法同遊，聊天的內容和互動則可增加一點不同的火花，和少了進一步互相瞭解的機會，雖然如此，仍須尊重個人的決定，期待下次的出遊有更多好咖一同郊外踏青。